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My John

The first time I went to Ireland and met John’s family I was a bit overwhelmed with their accents, especially those in the North. And it’s not just the way they pronounce words; it’s their colloquialisms.

For instance, when they introduced Sharon to me, she was called “Our Sharon”. And believe me it didn’t sound like our Sharon. It was more like “R Shrn”. So to me, she is still R Shrn.

After that I started calling John, My John.

Happy Birthday to my handsome John

My John, at Corcrum, Poyntzpass, Ireland

Those of you who have been following my blog know I haven’t introduced John in my story yet. It’s coming, so be patient. We had an interesting beginning, for sure.

But I can tell you who he is.

My John is the kind of man who wants to do the right thing. Not that he always does, mind you, but his heart is in the right place. He sees people as mostly good, and is amazed by how kind people are.

I think that’s a reflection of who he is.

He can strike up a conversation with just about anyone, and there have been times he was late for an appointment, because he spent too much time chatting with a fella he’d just met at the gas station.

He’s the first person to jump up and help too. At his Uncle’s funeral, he saw his Aunt falter in her step ever so slightly, and in a flash he was up out of the church pew and at her side.

My John loves his family more than anything in the world. Even motorcycles or skateboards. He is very close to his siblings, but when he talks about his brother, Brian, it’s as though he’s talking about Superman.

My husband John, loves his brother dearly.

Brothers

When I first met him, he was living in the Bay Area, and a couple of hours away from his Mom. It never failed that every other weekend, he was at her place for a visit and to check on her. He wrote a beautiful tribute to his Mother and Father called A Love Story. (You can read it here, if you’d like.)

Proud Mom

My John would stop a train for his kids. Back when I was dating, guys would get a little uncomfortable when I would say, “my kids come first”. When I said that to John, he said, “oh absolutely, always”. We high-fived and it’s been like that ever since.

John and his kids

He loves my family too. If anyone in my family needs help, he’d be there. One time my sister’s motorhome broke down while she was on her way from Oregon to  the Salton Sea, and My John drove two hours and fixed it, right there in the parking lot.

Yep, that’s My John under there

He treats my sons and daughter in law as if they were his own, and when my granddaughters came along, he jumped right in to be a part of their lives. When we asked him what title he wanted as their “grandfather”, he just said, “John works.”

Out for a walk near Bunny hill

I heard my youngest granddaughter introduce him to one of her friends one day. She said, “This is… My John”. I thought that was just perfect.

Today is My John’s birthday, and I could go on and on about how great he is. But I’ll just end it with this:

Happy Birthday My Handsome John!  XOXO

p.s. this is your card

17 Comments

  1. Awww Baby, this is so sweet. I love you…

  2. He sounds so wonderful. I’m so happy for your both to have found each other and to be so in love. Enjoy this happy day!

  3. What a great birthday card for your John. Lovely, and loving, words.

  4. Ah…Loretta that is just so sweet.. ..I am so glad to have met you both because I know he has that lovely gentle nature from just meeting him that once. Xx

    • Loretta Sayers
      Loretta Sayers

      2018-06-02 at 09:43

      I am so happy we all met too Hilda! And thank you, we have a couple of good ones, don’t we!?

  5. Hi. Firstly I think its really nice that you have introduced ‘your John’ to everyone. It is great to hear all about him. He sounds like a fantastic guy and the type you don’t meet very often in life. I thought he looked kind before I read about him. I am lucky enough to have a guy who is quite similar in that he’ll do anything for anyone and is also kind and doesn’t make a drama out of things. I guess we are both very lucky ladies – but at least we know it and then again they’re lucky too aren’t they?!Xx

  6. Happy Birthday Loretta’s John! 🎈🎈🎈

  7. Playing catch up on your blog this morning! Happy belated birthday to “your John!” So glad you two found each other and it’s a joy to read your life story as it unfolds. But I do know the story of your meeting John, so if it wasn’t in your blog, where did I read it? I think I read some of his writings first, so maybe it was there?

    • Loretta Sayers
      Loretta Sayers

      2018-06-05 at 08:20

      Thank you Mary. And, yes you must have read some of John’s posts.

      It all worked out…but oh what a ride!

  8. What a beautiful post about “Your John”’!

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